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September 2, 2009 at 2:42 PM Flag Quote & Reply

anju
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boht zabrdast humri nai nasl ko ese hi samjne ki zaroort hai mera apna khyal hai ap kuch b kar lian aik larki apne maa baap ko dukh de k kabi b daami khushyn hasal nahi kar sakti kabi nhi ye char din ka janoon hai meri tamaam behne khud sochain or apne ap se swaal karin kya ap esa kar k khus rah lain gi           kitne din or kitne saal/////ap apni ulaad ko kya btain gi k kon hain ap or haqeeqat kya hai////////apki ulaad ko tanae zarooor mile ge k tumhri maa ka maazi kya hai/////betyan to maa ka sahara hoti hai ap to kuch din kush reh lain gi lekun socho ap k maa baap behn or behne jin ki shadi ho chuki hai kya ho ga un ka wo to sri umar k liy dunya se cut jain ge na logon ki nazron mai hatuk wo kese jee pain ge

or muaaf krna kisi ko bura lge par baat sachi hai ye ik karwa sach hai larke k rishta daar apko behn beti bhabi ya kuch ese rishta se bas ap k samne hi bulain ge mugr piche ghar se baagi hui  larke ko bagaa kar le gai  sochin ALLAH KA WASTA SOCHAIN ALLAH  paak har muslman larki hadyat naseeb ataa farmay or samj booj ki tufeeq ataa farmay sabbbbbbbbb se bar kar ye maan k qadmon tale jannat hai kya un k dukh de k ap es se meroom hona chahain gi?

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anju

September 13, 2009 at 10:27 AM Flag Quote & Reply

rainbow
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Bohat acha topic hai, ispe to bohat lambi debate ho sakti, lekin apka article main sahi se read nahin ker payi, becoz start kay kuch words missing thay lekin context samaj main aa gaya hai,

 

i'm agree with anju nd disagree, listen parents ko bhi aik bar apnay bachon ki pasand kay baray main maloom kerna chahiye, lekin agar parents ko lagay kay ye banda/bandi aapki daughter or son kayliye sahi nahin hai to phir bachon ko apnay parents ki baat  zaroor manani chahiye, bhag kay shadi nahih kerni chahiye,lekin anju hamaray han aj bhi bohat saray loog aisay hain jo apnay bachon ki marzi janay bagair hi unki shadiyan tay ker detay hain, islam nay bhi ijazat di hai, aik aur baat bhi mention kerni chahti hon, jo young loog hotay hain woh sahi aur galat main farak nain ker patay, bohat saray aisay loog hian khas taur per larkay jo larkiyon kay saath pyaar ka darama ker kay unsay shadi kertay hain aur phir, unhain chor detay hain, aur kuch to aisay hain jub matlab pura ho gaya to baich bi detay hain, aik aur baat jub un logon nay shadi ker li hai to parents ko bhi unko accept ker lena chahiye, parents ki bhi aik bohat bari mistake kertay hai,  bachon pay check nd balance nahin rakhtay aur ye sirf maan ki zeemadari nahin hoti baap ki bhi hoti hain, humaray hain zayada tar baap maan pe hi sub kuch chor detay hain kay woh hi sub kuch dekay, aik aur cheez jub ye pata chal jaye kay apki daughter or son ka kisi say affair hai to hum usper bohat sari pabandiya laga detay hain, main ye nahin kehti kay aisa nahin kerna chahiye, lekin bohat zayada sakhti ki waja se bachay baghi ho jatay hain, pehlay pyar se samjao,

 humaray han isbaat pe bohat kam loog dehan detay hain kay humaray bachon kay friends kaisay hain sometimes is tarah frnds ki wajah se bhi hota hai, agar dehan dain gay bhi to sirf larkon kay frnds pe, AGAR PARENTS APNAY BACHON KAY ACHAY FRIENDS BANAY TO AISA KUCH NAHIN HO GA, becoz woh unkay saath har baat share karain gay, to aisa koi masla ho hi nahin sakta khas taur per 12-20 ki age main to  zaroor bohat zayada is baat ki taraf dehan dena chahiye, meray grand father kaha kertay thay kay jo insan 20 ki age tak sahi reh gaya usay baki sari zindagi kuch  nahin ho sakta main us waqat sochti thi kay is age main aisa kya hota hai, abh samaj main aya hai , becoz ye wo age hoti hai jub aapki adtain paki ho rahi hoti hain, ye tarbiyaat ki age hoti hai.

 

PLZ JO LOOG AAP MAIN SE MARRIED HAIN YA JUB AAP PARENTS BANAY TO APNAY BACHON KAY ACHAY FRNDS BANIYE

 

meray khayal main main nay bohat lamba lecture de diya hai,

 

i've a question? jub is tarah ki koi baat hoti hai to larki ko hi kyun kasoorwar mana jata hai dekha jaye to larka bhi utna hi kasoorwar hota hai???????????

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October 5, 2009 at 5:58 AM Flag Quote & Reply

trueeyes
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bohot bohot shukriya topic pasand karny ka :)

i think dono hi barabr k kasoorwar hoty hen kion k tali aik hath se to kabhi bajti nhi he :)

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October 5, 2009 at 4:11 PM Flag Quote & Reply

anju
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g bohat achi batain ki ap ne or sab se achi bat k jub maa baap apne bache k dost hon ge to unko kisi or friend ki zaroort km rahe gi  butt ye to sirf pare likhe parnts samj or kar saktE hain lkn jo parnts taleem ki nemat se mehroo,m hain i think un k liy thora mshkal hai ye ik muslma haqeeqat hai k is mai zayda to larke hi kasoorwar niklt hain bat ye hai rainbow k muslman jitna islam se door Ho ga utna hi museebt mai rahe ga acha ik waqya sunta hon/////larki khob pari likhi hai school mai job kRti hai or shadi k liy b ghar walo ka koi dabao nhi yani wo jhan bole gi ghar wale uski shadi kar dete larki b seert ki achi rishta daar or muhale k sabi loog boht acha jante hain lekun sari baton k bawajood wo ghar se baag jati hai kya  maa ki muhabt na baap ki laaj kuch b to nhi rkha us ne saal do saal ki muhabt maa baap ki muhabt par galb agai kya wo bashaoor nhi the taleem ne kuch nhi sikhya use kya khyal hai ap logon ka is bare mai kasoor waar kon nikla maa ki glti sunnat nabwi par aml krte huay taaleem k zewar se arasta kya baap ki galti k apne khoon par barosa kya mera kyal ik beti ka itna to haq banta hai k behn beti par itmaad ki fiza maa baap bhai ki taruf se ho or beti ka farz apne gar walon ki laaj phir b sab kuch ho jay to naseeb zahr is k ilawa hum bol b kya sakte hain dusri bat mere bhaioon se rah chlte hum larki ko dekhte hai us par jumla bazi karte hain ye nhi sochte isi time kisi raste par humri b behn beti k sath kuch esa hi ho rha ho ga agr hum yahi soch lain to to to INSHALLAH ye nasoor jar se ukharne mai humra b hath ho ga or INSHALLAH is k swab se ALLAH humain mehoom nhi rakhe ga BAKHUDA mazhb islam ne orat ko maa ka rutba b nawza hai or behn jesi azeem dolt b dusri taruf ankhon ki dhandak beti b bna dya ALLAH sab behno  ko rahe raast par chlne ki tufeeq de//AMEEN

 

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anju

October 5, 2009 at 5:57 PM Flag Quote & Reply

anju
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haa dono barbr k pure pure kasorwar hon ge buzrag kehte hain larkya bohat sanbal k or ankhon k samne rakhne ki cheez hain///ap is khyal se k toot na jay kahin upar mai rakh k bool jain to boht bari galti par hain////mtlb un ko islam or dunan ki taleem se arsta karin ache bure ki tameez sikhain beja pabndi se  bache  baki kismt ka likha to koi nhi taal sakta

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anju

October 5, 2009 at 6:13 PM Flag Quote & Reply

anju
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ik sawal??????//??/?larki apni marzi se shadi kar sakti hai islam b is bat ki ijzt deta hai lekun gunha kis kis bat par mile ga use or sab se zayda kon c saza mile gi use

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anju

October 5, 2009 at 6:20 PM Flag Quote & Reply

rainbow
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i don't knw :dry: if u knw so plz tell us.

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October 8, 2009 at 2:39 AM Flag Quote & Reply

anju
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:(mai ne ye bat suni hai  k us larki ki bakhshash nhi ho gi ab ye sahi hai ya galt ALLAH HO ALAM?

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anju

October 12, 2009 at 4:57 AM Flag Quote & Reply

frishta
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Trueyes nay bohat achi story ka intkhab kiya hai or urfan sadiqi ki tehrer b bohat purasar hai . rainbow n anju apkay comments b

Achay hain I think jo larki khud apni ezat nahi kar sakti koi usay kiya ezat day ga yahn tak k wo larka jis k liya wo Walden say bagawat karti hai us ki nazar main b us ki kkoi ezat nahi hoti …or dekha jaye to …

Islam Ke According Larka Larki Ki Dosti Jayaz Hi Nahin ........ Aur Hum Muslims Hain To Hamein Islam Ki Baat Ko Follow Karna Hoga........

 

Lekin Aaj Kitni Hi Najayz Aur Haram Cheeze Hain Jinhe Apne Liye Jayaz Aur Halal Samajh Rakha Hai ....... Yeh Hamara Kamzor Iman Hi Hai Ke Hum Poore Poore Deen Main Dakhil Nahin Hue Hain ....... bohat si batin jinhain ham jantay hain k galat hai phir b kartay hain

ham sochtay Hain Ke Hamari Dosti To Pak Hai Hum Ghalat Batein Nahin Karte....... Lekin islam ka Hukum To Yeh Hai Ke Bina Zaroorat Kisi Na-mehram Se Baat Na Karo ......... Hum keh Dete Hain Ke Bus Niyat Sahee Ho To Koee Harj Nahin ....lekin sochnay ki baat yae hai k Sahaba Kiram AUr Sahbiyat( radiallah tala unham )Ki Niyat Na-uzoBillah ghalat Hoti Thi ? jab unhe Manah Kiya Gaya WOh Pak AUr Mohatram Hanstiyan thi To Phir Hamare Liye Yeh Uzar Kahan Se Agaya Ke Hamari Niyat Theek Hai .........esa sochnay say jo Na-jayaz hai woh jayaz nahin ho jayga........!!

 

Allah subha wa tala Mujhe AUr Sabko Deen Main Poora Poora Dakhil Farmaye... Aameen

 

rainbow n anju ap meri yae post zaror read kejiya ga in main islam is baray main kiya kehata hai btaya gaya hai .

http://trueeyes.webs.com/apps/forums/topics/show/1476402-court-marriage-ki-islam-main-haisia



http://trueeyes.webs.com/apps/forums/topics/show/1476336-haya-perdah-islam?next=

October 13, 2009 at 6:23 PM Flag Quote & Reply

anju
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g boaht achi btain ki frshta g ap ne humra islam is bat ki qatan ijazat nhi deta or na hi mon boly behn bhai ka koi tasavr hai islam mai ap tareekh ko duharain to pata chlta hai k fatha MAKKAH OR MITHA MITHA MADINA shreef mai humare payare nabi SALLALHO AALEHI WASALM NE oorton se jub bait li to sirf zuban se  mai maer maa baap qurban ap par or dusri tarf dekhain HAZRAT  UMAR RAZI ALLAH TALA ANHO>jub ap se zikar karte hain K tamaam

ZOJA MOHTRMA RAZI ALLAH TALA ANHO

Ko parda ki pabndi karni chahiay

kiun k AP <SALLAHO ALIHAY WASLM>KI khidmat aqdas mai har tra k wafd ate hai.ALLAH AZAWAJAL ne  apne mehoob ko wahi arsal ki k ab har moman orat par parda lazmi hai namohrmon se,,,,,, maqsad ye btna hai k humra islam is baat ki bohat sakhti se tardeed krta hai,larke or larki ki dosti ki or jis cheez ki bunyad hi humre islam k khilaf hai to beshak us ka niqah kese qable qabool ho sakta hai ap ne  rainbow ne bohat acha likha muje bohat zayda chezon ka pata chla  ALLAH AP Ko is ka bohat zayda ajar de AMEEN.........

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anju

October 17, 2009 at 5:57 PM Flag Quote & Reply

trueeyes
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Sb logo ka bohot shukriya k posting ko pasand kiya or apny comments diye :)

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October 18, 2009 at 2:30 PM Flag Quote & Reply

rainbow
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farishta gg main nay aapki  post read ki hai, bohat achi hain, lekin amal kon kerta hai in baton pe ...................bohat kam loog hain..........

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October 19, 2009 at 8:18 AM Flag Quote & Reply

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